Friday, June 28, 2013

MEDICINE FOR MADNESS - FROM OSHO - DOES IT APPLY FOR ANGER, HATE & JEALOUSY



MEDICINE FOR MADNESS

I am giving here an extract from OSHO'S talks on Yoga sutras. OSHO relates impressive, real-life examples to drive home the Life-Truths. Here is one such. It is mostly self-explanatory. 

You may only get into a doubt whether - this is a method to treat only mad people, or, is it also a method to set right, other people, who are constantly, rubbing the people around on the wrong side. 

Read On :


"In Japan they have a certain method, in Zen monasteries, for treating mad people. In the West they have not yet been able to find anything. They are still groping in the dark. Even ordinary crazy people seem to be beyond help. And psychoanalysis takes three years, five years, seven years. And then too, nothing much comes out of it. You dig the whole Himalaya and you don’t find even a mouse coming out of it. So only very rich people can afford it, as a luxury. Psychoanalysis is a luxury. People brag about it, that they have been psychoanalyzed by a very great psychoanalyst – for five years continuously they were psychoanalyzed, as if it is something of an attainment – and nothing happens. People go from one psychoanalyst to another.

In Japan they have a very simple method. If somebody goes mad he is brought to the monastery. They have a very small cottage separate from the monastery, in a corner. The man is left there. Nobody takes much interest in him – never take much interest in a madman, because interest becomes the food – a madman wants the attention of the whole world; that’s why he is mad. In the first place, he is mad because he demands attention. That has led him to madness.

So nobody takes much care... They care, but they don’t give attention. They give him food and they make him comfortable, but nobody goes to talk to him. Even the people who will bring food and other needs will not talk to him. He is not allowed to talk because mad people like talking. In fact, too much talking has led them to this state.

It is just the opposite of psychoanalysis: psychoanalyst goes on talking and he allows the patient to talk for hours, and the mad people enjoy it very much – and somebody so attentively listening – it is beautiful! Nobody talks in the Zen monastery to the madman. Nobody pays any attention, any special attention. In a subtle indifference, they take care, that’s all. For three weeks nobody talks to him, and because nobody talks he can talk to himself, that’s all. And he relaxes, sits or silently lies down on the bed, and does nothing – no treatment in fact – and within three weeks he is completely okay."


Many people around us are under stress, anger hate, jealousy, depression -  and so on. All these are certain types of madnesses only. 

Sometimes, treating mad people as normal people is the medicine for them. Sometimes, ignoring the outbursts of  angry people is the medicine for them. Sometimes, we must show by our behaviour that jealousy does not pay; and, hate does not pay; people with these must get ignored; 

Put the Board : Only friendly  people are allowed in - No words of anger, Jealousy or Hate are allowed here. It may work for many people. It may not work for the Hard core. Yet, this is worth trying. Putting the Board means - indicating this in as many ways as possible - especially to people with negativities.

Most people agree that there are two ways of dealing with Negativities and Negative people. Be indifferent to negative people -  as much as possible.  Don't give them any importance. Second, don't allow the negativity to percolate into you. This is easier - if we cultivate the Opposite, Positive quality and practice it.

It may be difficult the first time. But, like in all other things, it can be and must be practiced. And, practice makes perfect.

= v.vijayamohan





Wednesday, March 27, 2013

CHOICE QUOTES ON LOVE



CHOICE  QUOTES  ON  

LOVE


Love is a strange Emotion. 

Someone says, Love is God; Or, God is Love; Another says, Love is a serious mental disease. It is a virus which happens to almost all – at some point of life. 

No one dies of it. Many People die due to the deprivation of it. When love ceases, all that one needs to do is – fan it from within oneself. 

There is huge abundance of it inside each of us. It will become a fire again, given the chance.Living with love inside is a great way of living. Dying with pots of love inside is equally a great way of dying. 

Lovers need mostly very little cause for loving. But, once in love, they can give you wonderful causes, of which they are totally convinced; even if, none of them sound logical to you. 

Love is not logical. If logical, love would not be infinite; and, it could not have been equated with God at all. 

Therefore, do not expect Lovers to be logical always.

Here are a few choice quotes from illustrious persons on LOVE.

Ø Love is a serious mental disease.  =  Plato

Ø Love is like a virus. It can happen to anybody at any time.  =  Maya Angelou

Ø There is no remedy for love but to love more.  =  Henry David Thoreau

Ø To fear love is to fear life, and those who fear life are already three parts dead.  =  Bertrand Russell

Ø The moment you have in your heart this extraordinary thing called love and feel the depth, the delight, the ecstasy of it, you will discover that for you the world is transformed.  =  Jiddu Krishnamurti

Ø Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get - only with what you are expecting to give - which is everything.  =  Katharine Hepburn

Ø First love is only a little foolishness and a lot of curiosity. = George Bernard Shaw

Ø Love is a gross exaggeration of the difference between one person and everybody else.  =  George Bernard Shaw

Ø At the touch of love everyone becomes a poet. = Plato

Ø Life is the flower for which love is the honey. = Victor Hugo

Ø All mankind love a lover. =  Ralph Waldo Emerson

Ø Love is the only force capable of transforming an enemy into friend.  =  Martin Luther King, Jr.

Ø Falling in love consists merely in uncorking the imagination and bottling the common sense.  =  Helen Rowland

Ø Love means not ever having to say you're sorry. =  Erich Segal

Ø Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage. = Lao Tzu

Ø It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages. = Friedrich Nietzsche

Ø The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves.  =  Victor Hugo

Ø We are not the same persons this year as last; nor are those we love. It is a happy chance if we, changing, continue to love a changed person.  =  W. Somerset Maugham

Ø It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages. = Friedrich Nietzsche

Ø Kindness in words creates confidence. Kindness in thinking creates profoundness. Kindness in giving creates love.  =  Lao Tzu

Ø We never know the love of a parent till we become parents ourselves.  Henry Ward Beecher

Ø Love begins by taking care of the closest ones - the ones at home. = Mother Teresa

Ø You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and that person is not to be found anywhere. You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe deserve your love and affection. = Buddha

Ø Hatred does not cease by hatred, but only by love; this is the eternal rule.  =  Buddha

Ø Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them humanity cannot survive. = Dalai Lama

Ø  Do you have to have a reason for loving? 

Ø We are all born for love. It is the principle of existence, and its only end.  =  Benjamin Disraeli

Ø Man must evolve for all human conflict a method which rejects revenge, aggression and retaliation. The foundation of such a method is love. =  Martin Luther King, Jr.

Ø At the center of non-violence stands the principle of love.  =  Martin Luther King, Jr.

Ø Power is of two kinds. One is obtained by the fear of punishment and the other by acts of love. Power based on love is a thousand times more effective and permanent then the one derived from fear of punishment.  =  Mahatma Gandhi

Ø Three passions, simple but overwhelmingly strong, have governed my life: the longing for love, the search for knowledge, and unbearable pity for the suffering of mankind. = Bertrand Russell

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Monday, February 4, 2013

SONG & DANCE - Of the Universe - When did song and dance originate? - What is Song & Dance? - Are Rock Bands good or Bad?



SONG & DANCE 

Of the Universe 


When did song and Dance originate in Humanity? When? When?

In Hindu lore, Lord Siva is either meditating or Dancing. He loves both these things equally. The meditation takes him deep inside and into the realms of silence and peace. The dance takes him to the highest energies of life. 

His dance is called taandava. His consort, Parvathi also meditates or dances; and her dance is called Laasya. 

There is no dance without music. Wherefrom does the music come for tandava of Siva and the lasya of Parvathi?

The whole creation is musical. The whole being is musical. There is nothing in the Universe that is not musical. When you talk so that others listen, it is musical. When the leaves of the tree move, the sound they make is musical. 

The birds sing. The streams of water flowing down to their destination make musical sounds. The waves of the sea make musical sounds. Any two objects or beings coming together becomes music instantly. The peacock sings, and dances too. The cobras dance too. Even the elephant dances in ecstasy. The Gods dance too. 

The song and dance of the creator is what we see as his creation. The sounds of the heart and the beats of the pulse are song and dance to a life rhythm in us. When the rhythm stops, when the song and dance within us stops, life in us has stopped too, for all practical purposes. All this means, that music and dance are inseparable parts of life on earth and life in heaven too.

Siva’s dance is  fast paced and destructive for the world. It signifies a huge, indescribable aloneness and an all consuming flame. In effect, it is craving for a smoothening and soothing force. Parvathi’s lasya infuses grace into the dance and their togetherness in dance makes for the flowering of the entire creation. Siva, the Eswara, is now a consummation of the male and female energies and transforms himself into Ardhanareeswara. There is no more separation of the male and female energies; it is one single creative, benevolent, compassionate force that emerges out of the unified dance of Siva and Parvati.

So when did song and dance emanate? It emanated in the very beginning of the beginning. It emanated with the  God himself.

How did it come to the human world? When Manmatha, the God of love or Cupid, who is  the male energy in the male and Rathi, the female energy in the female come together, the whole human creation sings and dances. Man and woman come together in ecstasy. Many beautiful dance systems were invented in India to aid the process of losing the self in song and dance and finding the God within.

But these dance systems are extremely meaningful. Not a single movement lacks meaning. The song is meaningful and the dance must merge with the song.  Even the animals and the birds watching the dancer must be able to receive the subtlest meanings and feelings inherent in the song and dance.

But, what if the song is “I LOVE YOU” and the dance is karate kicks and punches all around? It displays the individual’s taste! 

Be that as it may be. Can pelvic gyrations of either the man or the woman or both be called dance? Can vigorous movement of female chest (to the exclusion of other body parts) be called dance? Dance, it still may be, but it should be a private affair. Not one open to all families, children, elders and so on. These are clearly sexist and for common viewing, these are obscene material. If children are viewing them often, they can soon turn into violent rapists. I am of the opinion that most of the so called item numbers in our movies are tasteless, meaningless and obscene and unfit for children or even elders.

The western music and dance are good for the western world. Are they good for us? Yes; They are, as long as they are meaningful, soul touching and not obscene.

If the song is ear-blasting and the dance is unconnected to the song except being rhythmic to the drum beats, I would not want to see or listen to it. There are far better things to see and listen. I prefer meaningfulness for especially such fine arts in life. But, if someone else wants to listen to meaningless jibberish as music and karate kicks and punchs as dance form, it is their choice.

Some rock bands are really good, meaningful and soulful. The body does get into a dance along with their rhythm. Some are just noise and nothing else. Some of the famous singers and rockers died so miserably that we can easily understand that there never was any soul in their song or dance. Not for them at least.

A Sanskrit saying says, “pasurvetthi, sisurvetthi, vetthi gaanarasam phanihi.”, which means  song is something which the cow loves, the child loves and even the cobra loves. Songs are known to make trees flower beautifully, make cows give more milk and make children grow as happy kids. Song and dance should rise to such levels.

There is song everywhere in the creation. There is dance everywhere in the creation. May the song and dance grow in a soulful, beautiful, healthy manner and not turn ugly, obscene and meaningless.

But beyond this, I do not think, anybody needs to be discouraged from song or dance. These are eternal. These are divine.


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